Oh Today….

First I want to write about my day. Oh what a day and I am wondering if anybody is with me. Wife’s and Mamas read on please.

My day started at 6:15am on a Saturday! Why you ask? My husband was going with a buddy to go on a ride and needed to wake up that early. Well then the baby woke up because I’m guessing his belly was hurting. (Poor thing, I really do have sympathy). So I fed him and he ate so he could have just been hungry. I decided to pick up the house. Mind you I had plans to go to my grandmas house and visit with her. Evander wakes up at 8:15am. I give him a banana for breakfast. He’s not much of a breakfast fan.

As I’m getting him ready I’m hyping him up that we’re going to grandmas house. I put Kingston in the car seat and start out the door after I packed EVERYTHING up to go. Guess what? I hit the start button and of course there is no key. Then I think wait I seen it last night on the counter. I go to it kind of rushing. There is no key.

I am texting Alex and looking EVERYWHERE. He texts me and says that he has both keys. Guys I was so upset. I started crying. I was so mad. Wives have you ever just wanted to strangle your husbands? That’s what I wanted to do. I was looking forward to this day because I didn’t get to go at the beginning of the week so I was ready to get out of the house and see her.

Now on the Mama end of it. I was so tired and needed help with the kids. Toward the end of the week Evander was struggling. He was having bad dreams and I think growing pains. We had a good day yesterday. Today though Kingston was struggling. His belly was hurting because of the formula shortage. We have been having to switch him back and forth from his regular formula to a different kind. The different kind is just not settling well with his belly. Besides the point. He’s practically cried every time he was up poor thing. I was struggling to. As a wife and as a mama. Today was an off day.

Alex came home earlier than he was supposed to because I just needed a break. I needed help. I was upset at him. Kingston was not feeling good. Evander was upset in the morning time because we didn’t go anywhere like he thought. Afternoon though he got better and was back to his normal silly self.

It’s okay wife’s and mamas to have a bad day. If you are aggravated at your husband that is okay just let it be healthy. Make sure you don’t let it consume it. Did it take me all day to get over it? Yes it did. But I got over it. Did I have to be strong for my babies? Yes I did even though I just needed a day off. You don’t get those. I know, I know.

So today… I struggled.